I am so irritated at how this one person pretends to be my friend, she is a lesbian who just met my fiance not even a month ago and tries to control everything he does, and she pretends to be my friend to my face, then turns around and gets confrontational tonight with me because she wants him to come over her house, and instead of letting him discuss it with me, she comes up to me and tells me what he is going to do.  I wanted to be like “bitch who the hell do you think you are, you are dating and screwing a girl, obviously you have no luck with the last husband you had which is why you turned to men, yet you tell my fiancee that I am controlling. Doesn’t you telling me and him what he is doing constitute you as being more controlling than I am”.  I really wanted to say all of this, but what did I do… I saw the state cop walk through the door, and being the bigger woman I walked away.  I’m going to let my baby do his thing because that’s a friend of his, but the next time I get disrespected I am going to let him handle it like he wants to now, but I really don’t like confrontation at all.  I really can’t deal with someone disrespecting me or people I care about though! That is the one thing I can not deal with is disrespect. I can deal with opinions, assholes at work, parents yelling, kids screaming, whatever, but I CAN NOT/WILL NOT deal with disrespect!!!